Ask Rhonald & Angel

Anonymous asked: my best friend just went through a break up. cause like. he was secretly dating this girl and their parents found out and forced them to break up. & the thing is, i secretly have feelings for him. he doesnt know. he's been so depressed these past few days & i really wanna make him feel better. nothing i do seems to make him feel better.. and im not doing it to be the "rebound" or something. its cause i wanna see him be happy.. any advice on how i should cheer him up? :\ thanks guys!

I think just being there for him is good enough, don’t try and talk to him about it. Instead listen, hear what he has to say, maybe he would rather talk about rather than listen to lectures. And after he gets over it, then you should tell him you like him, just give it some time, though.

Anonymous asked: i have feelings for my guybestfriend. i've been planning on telling him how i feel about him :) but i just dont know how to do it with out it being awkward after i tell him.. (just incase he doesnt feel the same) i just hope things will be normal after. back then, this one girl told him how she felt bout him too & he didnt seem to be so awkward about it. so that kinda makes me feel better about things being the same :) any advice on what i should do? :)

I was in your position before w/ my boyfriend. I think you should tell him, take the risk. If it doesnt work out, just don’t make it awkward and it wont be awkward, yaknow? (:

Anonymous asked: Okay, so I really like this guy and he is very different from my old crushes. In my perspective, I think he likes me back. There are so much signs like he tries to start a conversation with me but he ends up stunned and nervous so he just sits there and he always follows me around like putting his stuff next to my stuff just to have an excuse to go to his stuff too when I go to mine, ect. Its been 6 months knowing him and I can't keep it anymore. What should I do?

Why not try and tell him, since he is giving hints that he likes you?

Anonymous asked: I like this guy. And I have this friend. She knew I liked him for hella long. & some how she ended up having feelings for him too. I know that you can't help having feelings but like, now, she's all over him. And she's doing it right in front my my face too :\ Everytime I'm with him, she always comes out of no where and breaks us apart & it works since she literally pulls him away and it leaves me standing there like a dumbass.& since then he doesn't talk to me as much.. What do I do?

I’ve been in your situation before, if i were i would just let it go. She obviously is really desperate for him, and if he’s not gonna do anything about it and let her push him around, then they’re both pretty pathetic. Your friend should now that are limits if both like the same guy.

Anonymous asked: what do you do when you have your heart broken? ):

It takes lots of time to get over it, if you need to cry it out, let it out it really helps, have a friend listen to all your pain and everything. Just let it out, and time will heal you. 

Anonymous asked: (cont.) he's reallyyyy sorry & he screwed up big time. i don't know if i should forgive him or not. but the problem is, who should i say 'yes' to? Xx, thanks.

Well, honestly i can’t answer that for you. That’s a decision you’ll have to make yourself, but i can help you try and figure who you should say yes to.. Picture your future at the dance, picture yourself w/ each guy, which guy do you see making you happier? 

Anonymous asked: so i ended up having feelings for my guy bestfriend. he used to talk to me and start the convo and stuff. and like. now a days, he never texts me, barley talks to me in person and the last time i texted him to talk, he never texted me back. when we see each other at school, our convos would be really short and really dry like he doessnt wanna talk to me. he wasnt like this before. i feel like we're becoming strangers again :/ what do you guys think happened? and what do i do? thanks guys~

well, it can be anything. Maybe he’s been stressed w/ school, family, or friends, etc.. You never know.. If i were you, i would just try and reconnect w/ him. I would just watch how much i talk to him, i wouldn’t wanna appear as clingy, yaknow? So i suggest, keep talking to him, try and reconnect, if you ever have a problem.. turn to him, since he is your bestfriend, maybe once he realizes that you still count on him, he’ll go back to talking to you more.

Anonymous asked: k, so. there's this guy that i really like & idk if he likes me or not because he's been giving a lot of mixed signals. but that's not the problem, the problem is that my 'ex' has been sort of really clingly. we sort of just broke up and it's really awkward when we talk so i don't really talk to him much anymore. so he keeps messaging me on facebook that he misses me, i try to let him down easy& say that "sorry but people change" and everything but he keeps msging me. what should i do? xx

I would just try and let him down easy, continue saying stuff like that.. You can say.. “Things have changed been us, its different now, we should both move on it’ll be better for us.” Just say stuff like that, keep in mind you should respect his feelings so watch how you word everything. :P

Anonymous asked: ok so, i sort of need both perspectives on this if you can. so there's this guy that likes me but he has a gf and i have a bf too. and i think i like him back but i'm not sure. he's really nice to me & i don't want to let him down, but his gf's friend's are really mean & told me to tell him to "fck off" but i haven't even flirted or even tried anything on him. some of my best friends want to go straight up to them & tell them off but i didn't let them. what should i do? thanks so much!

Well, its not right to be in a relationship and like someone else.. its not fair to your boyfriend or the Other guys’ girlfriend.. Yaknow? & Just ignore his girlfriends friends, if you haven’t done anything then they shouldn’t be saying anything. Its up to you if you want to confront them, i would be the bigger person and just ignore them and mad dog them or something. (x Good luck. 

-Angel

Anonymous asked: DO YOU LIKE THE HUNGER GAMES? (:

sure